How To Date Women – Dating Secrets For Men

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

When you think of “dating” a woman, you probably think of “dinner and a movie,” am I right?

You go out and doing things with the woman while you get to know her.

Consider for a moment that this is a misconception about dating.

See, most guys use the concept of “going out” with a girl to mean that there is some romantic ulterior motive there, and that is not always the case.

Let’s go over some of the most common mistakes guys make when “dating” a girl…

Mistake #1: Guys use dates as opportunities to “Impress” women.

Many men feel they have to prove themselves while on a date, so the woman is attracted to them. Many may take a woman out to expensive places while showing her a good time; while they go on to build himself up as important by bragging.

Mistake #2: Buying your way into the heart of a woman.

This is not true and is a very bad idea, since many women are not concerned about the amount of money you spend on a date. There is no amount of money or any expensive item you can buy that will get a woman interested in you if there is no mutual attraction.

Mistake #3: Activities are meaningless!

Since spending time together does not equal a romantic interest, going out with someone does not mean as much as you would think it does, therefore, doing the dinner and a movie date, does not mean the girl will be attracted to you.

Mistake #4: Guys can become BORING!

Nothing is worse than going out on a date where there is no spark or chemistry. Some guys get so nervous on dates, that they sabotage themselves by being a boring dud. They talk about mundane things, display little or no personality, and just go through the motions hoping not to screw anything up.

Mistake #5: The patterns of failure.

Finally, many men get a certain idea about dating in their heads – how things are supposed to be – and they follow that rigidly. They take every girl to the same restaurant. They ask her the same questions. They take all the fun and spontaneity out of the interaction.

So what does it mean to date a woman?

It is simply really, dating builds attractions by strengthening emotional connections and building comfort.

See, it doesn’t matter where you go, or how much money you spend. All that matters is how you’re able to connect to the woman you’re with and what you can make her feel about you.

You will notice that this is the major factor in the difference of going on cheap dates while truly romancing a woman and that of spending a great deal of money and getting nowhere fast.

You should completely focus on how you can increase your emotional connection with the woman you date.

Consider talking about your passions and shared interests, this will aid you in determining what hopes and dreams she holds dear.

Stay away from boring questions like “where do you work?” Instead, rephrase these questions to be fun and interesting, for instance, ask her: “If you could do anything you wanted, and weren’t bound by the laws of space and time, what would you do?”

Just have fun and enjoy yourself!

Crack jokes – even if they’re not good. Have fun. Steer the conversation toward subjects she finds interesting. Be curious about who she is.

Above all, do not be to shy to bring up romance.

Although many men shy away from approaching the subject of relationships while on a date, you should build the intensity of attraction by building toward that.

Joke about sex. Flirt with her. Be a little wicked. Girls like this, and if you DON’T do it, you won’t be able to build enough attraction to take things to the next level.

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