Learn To Approach Any Woman

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Every man out there should learn how to approach women, because if he doesn’t, he is missing out on the vital first step for finding the girl of his dreams and forming a relationship with her…

You have to know how to approach a girl in the right manner if you want to have success with your pickup. The following are some proven tips I’d recommend you do to help you be successful in meeting women!

Have you ever approached a girl with what you thought was the best pickup line ever, but she freaked out when you tapped her on the shoulder?

Getting rejected right off the bat can be painful, but this is why you need to know the secrets to approaching women the right way! Once you’ve “blown it” with a girl, it is extremely hard to recover.

The most important thing to remember when approaching women is to come off as NON-THREATENING and to not, under any circumstances, telegraph your interest in them too early.

This is all about coming in “under the radar.”

You have to understand that most attractive women get hit on CONSTANTLY, so they’ve trained themselves to simply reject guys at the first sign they’re out to pick them up.

Think about this: if you had homeless people constantly walking up to you begging for change, you’d get pretty sick of it, right? Well, to most women, guys who try and pick them up are no better than that – an annoyance.

However, approaching women can not only be effective, but also fun and easy if you know the RIGHT WAY to do it!

So let’s talk about the right way to approach any woman…

The first secret is – DO NOT HESITATE!

If you hesitate and let the opportunity pass you by, you’re never going to experience success. Giving yourself time to talk yourself out of approaching a girl will never get you anywhere, so it’s important you act quickly and JUST DO IT.

Secondly, know what you’re going to start the conversation with BEFORE you approach the girl. This will make meeting women much easier because you don’t have to spend time thinking of what to say before you feel comfortable walking up to meet her.

So having a good pick-up line in your hip pocket to use in these situations is probably a good idea.

Now, when I use the term “pick up line,” I don’t mean the “Nice shirt, want to have sex?” type of line that’ll get you slapped in the face. Remember, you need to be NON-THREATENING!

Great pick up lines simply engage women in innocent conversation. So asking her opinion on something and then talking about it is always preferable to a sleazy or funny line that you’ve seen on TV.

Another thing – when you are approaching women, don’t charge in like you’re going to war. Approach them from an angle. This is less confrontational and will subconsciously put the woman you are engaging more at ease.

The simple fact is – great pick-ups can only occur when the girl you are talking to feels comfortable with you! That’s why you need to feel comfortable talking to the girl.

If you feel uncomfortable approaching women, the best way to build your comfort level is to go out and practice meeting as many women as you can until you GET comfortable with it!

Let me tell you – getting good at approaching women is not going to happen if all you do is read about it or study it! You actually have to DO it so you can build your level of experience. (Trust me, it gets easier the more you do it).

If you’re afraid of rejection, adjust your goals so that it’s hard to get rejected. Too many guys try and get the phone number, the date, or the quick romp in the sack. Instead, take baby steps and set your goal as just talking to the girl and carrying on a conversation. Use that as your measure of success. Remember, you’re just learning the right way of doing things.

That’s all you need to do!

Make it a game by seeing how many girls you can talk to in one day, and then try and beat your score.

Finally, use a “time constraint” when approaching women. This is as simple as telling her you’ve only got a minute to talk to her because you’ve got to get back to your friends or whatever you’re doing.

Time constraints let the girl you’re talking to know that you’re not trying to monopolize her time, and that this will be a quick conversation. Because of this, she’ll be more willing to engage in your talk.

Don’t worry about putting a time limit on yourself. Once the conversation picks up, the girl will forget about your time constraint and you can talk to her as long as you want. Remember, the goal here is just to get the conversation started, and a good time constraint will help you do that!

Be aware that the dating game is actually a numbers game. You need to meet as many women as possible to find that one special girl who will change your life.

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