Pick Up Lines That Work – How To Start A Conversation

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Some pick up lines are unbecoming, boring and rude.

For example how often have you heard bad pick up lines such as:

“Did it hurt? When you fell from heaven, did it hurt?”

“Do I know you from somewhere?”

“Did you wash your pants with windex? Because I can see myself in them.”

Face it, using lines like this will cause a girl to run the other way. Pick up lines like these make you look like an idiot.

Because pick of lines such as these, which are bad get too much attention, while encouraging others to consider that all pick up lines are worthless.

And this just isn’t true.

Using good pick up lines actually assist you in picking up a woman.

The true point in using pick up lines is to begin a conversation.

PERIOD.

After the woman begins talking with you, then you work your magic of getting her to date you, her telephone number and the emotional connection.

But if you can’t get the conversation started, then you can do anything else!

You not only talk to a woman, you engage her, by drawing her into a conversation, and this is the only means to continuing with your goal.

And guess what? A good pick up line will do that!

It is natural to be nervous when going out to meet women, being unsure what to say; however, most often you miss your chance to meet a good woman, simply because it takes to long to think up something to say.

This is why you should know a couple of good working pick up lines. Situations like these may hinder you from being original and you need something to help you get the ball rolling.

Never, consider that you can slide by with a line such as:

“Don’t I know you from somewhere?”

This is a lame pick up line, and all women know it, you might think yourself clever, but they will not.

Other unimpressive pick up lines include complimenting a woman on her clothing, asking for directions and telling her she looks like a movie star.

Why?

This is because these lines do not engage the woman into a conversation with you, once she answers your question, she may not show interest in conversing with you.

Good pick up lines avoid “yes and no” answers. They are about getting the girl to think about her response, evoking an emotional reaction, and making her WANT to continue to communicate with you.

How can you engage a woman in conversation with you?

The easiest way is to ask her opinion about something. Every woman has strong opinions, and they aren’t afraid to share them! (Particuarly when they come to relationships!)

Good pick up lines work like this, for example. Say something to the woman, like this, Hi, I need you opinion on something, do you think it is normal for a woman to try to time a pregnancy so that her baby is born within a particular zodiac sign? I would really like to hear the opinion of a woman about this subject.

Once you engage her in the conversation you may follow up with a tale of some woman who wants to be sure she and her children are astrologically compatible, to make life a bit more enjoyable as life moves along.

These various types of subjects for conversation can be about:

1. Relationships 2. Astrology 3. Marriage 4. Pregnancy 5. Children

The number of ways you can go with this are endless. Some of my favorite follow ups are:

“Are you a believer in astrology?” (This can begin conversations about destiny and fate.)

“What is your sign?” (No matter what she says – be sure to mention your sign is compatible with hers!)

“Do you like kids? You seem like the nurturing type.”

This could go on forever, surely, you get the idea.

The design of a good pick up line engages a woman into deep and interesting conversations that provide you with an opportunity to get to know one another as you become familiar with each other.

This is how you begin conversations.

Once you reach this point, ask for her telephone number and set up your first date.

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