Secrets On How To Pick Up Women

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Are you struggling when it comes to finding, meeting, and picking up women? If so, here are some guidelines to help you succeed in finding the women of your dreams!

Do you want to go out and pick up a woman tonight, but have no clue where to start?

Chances are no one you know can help you learn to pick up women. Your friends are probably just as clueless as you are, and your family is of no help at all. Even those “Dating Experts” you see on TV are full of it, because they have to cater to the feminist media to keep their careers on track! (And as we all know, the mainstream media doesn’t like helping guys get laid!)

The fact is: Teaching guys how to pick up women is a touchy subject!

If you want to have success with women TONIGHT, you’re going to have to follow some practical advice that works right away. Lucky for you, I’m about to share some with you right now…

First of all, let’s cover what you DON’T need to pick up women.

You DON’T need to look like a “male model.”

This is a big mistake most men make. Understand that about 85% of women actually care more about how a man can make them FEEL than how the man actually LOOKS.

So if you’re insecure about your looks, don’t sweat it! There’s still hope.

Second, you DON’T have to spend a lot of money or drive an expensive car!

Quite a few of the best Pickup Artists I’ve ever known spend $30 or less when they go out on dates, and more than one of them doesn’t even own a car! (And the ones that do don’t drive anything special!)

You’ll find that women can be very forgiving when it comes to how much money you make or spend on them, if they LIKE you! And part of picking up women is to get the girl to like you, right?

Finally, you DON’T have to be famous, be a certain type of ethnicity or nationality, or anything else you can think of.

The secret is to have a great personality – this will make any other obstacle you think you have to getting a girl to like you obsolete!

If you know the proper way to interact with women, nothing else matters.

You may not be able to have phenomenal success with these tactics right away if you’re just starting out. But if you take the time to start applying these tactics and actually learn from your experiences, you’ll find your success with women will dramatically improve.

You’ll want to try and go out as often as you can to talk to women – especially when you’re first starting out. You may be intimidated to go to “high pressure” environments like bars or clubs where it’s difficult to pick up women, but they are great practice grounds for you to hone your skills.

No matter what – if you want to get better, you need to devote some time every day to go out and pick up women. The more you do it, the better you’ll get!

When you’re first starting, you might not have a whole lot of success with the ladies. But over time, as your experience builds, your confidence will grow. Every success and failure you have is a learning experience meant to make you better at picking up women.

Remember: With Experience Comes MASTERY.

All you’re doing when you go out to pick up women is gaining experience!

You’re going to want to try and look as good as you can when you go out to gain this valuable experience with women.

(Notice I didn’t say “good looking.” I said “look good.” There’s a difference. You can’t control what you look like, but you CAN control your appearance – your hair, your tan, your clothes, etc.)

Dress for success: Wear clothing that fits you, that’s color-coordinated and looks good on you. If you have fashion-conscious friends who can help you pick out a wardrobe (particularly if they’re women), now’s the time to recruit them.

It’s true that you don’t need fancy threads to meet girls, but why not make it easier by wearing nice clothes, why wouldn’t you do it? Besides, looking good will also make you feel more confident!

Be on the lookout for opportunities to do pickup. You can find attractive women just about anywhere. And if you notice that she’s given you the eye, it would almost be a sin not to start talking to her!

Finally, its important to remember that a good pick up follows an easy-to-use structure. This means there’s steps you can follow to get a specific result EVERY TIME you go out to meet women.

The structure is:

Find a girl.

Walk up and meet her.

Talk and Gain Rapport.

Build Attraction.

These four simple steps is all you need! You’ll find that if you can just meet the women you want and gain rapport with them, you’ll easily be able to build attraction with them too.

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