Flirting Advice For Men

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

We will begin with a question.

Do you have a favorite woman, yet despite all your romantic efforts, you remain just friends?

Do you know the reason for this occurrence?

Chances are it is because you did not flirt correctly with the woman.

You should know that flirting is essential in the attraction process. If you do not do it at all or do it wrong, you may blow your chances with a woman.

So why is flirting so important?

This is simple flirting creates sexual tension.

And if you don’t have sexual tension in an interaction, there is no attraction. And if there’s no attraction, what does that make you?

Yes, that is right; it makes you simply a friend.

So when you know the proper way to flirt with a girl, your chances of attracting her go up exponentially.

And the secret is – flirting isn’t really as hard as many people think. In fact, it can be a lot of fun. The only time flirting doesn’t work is when it’s done WRONG.

The art of flirting with women is all about communicating your romantic interest in the woman rather than just letting the cat out of the bag.

Mixed signals are what this is.

You communicate one thing yet your words say something very different.

Here are some common mistakes most guys make when flirting with girls:

MISTAKE #1: They Are Way Too Obvious

Too many guys get excited about the women they are attracted to, and will come out and say exactly what they are feeling. What they don’t realize is that when presented with this information, the girl is then forced to make a judgment, right then and there, about how she feels about THEM.

And if you haven’t laid the proper groundwork beforehand, chances are the girl is going to reject you.

MISTAKE #2: Not Being Obvious Enough!

If you make no effort to communicate your interest, yet think the woman will just know what you feel, when you do make a move it surprises the woman, because up until that point she has no idea of your interest.

MISTAKE #3: They Rely More On Words Than Actions

Although, flirting includes what you say and the way you say it, the most powerful performance comes from your non-verbal body language. The small simple things like raising an eyebrow, tilting your head to one side and that wicked little grin, that carries the most meaning in a seemingly innocent remark.

MISTAKE #4: Taking Things Too Seriously

Flirting is a lighthearted and fun practice, it is when serious romantic gestures begin that causes the sexual tension to break down.

You are doing something wrong when you or the woman is not having fun while you flirt.

Although, there are other mistakes, these few should give you some ideas. Would you like to learn the proper way to begin flirting?

You’re going to want to use as much sexual innuendo as you can. This is a great way to flirt. But the key here is to be SUBTLE.

Here is an example, if you are in a bar and the woman with you orders a drink and then asks if you want something, you can jokingly say, You are not trying to get me intoxicated so you can take advantage of me, are you? Say all this of course, with a wink and a nod.

Flirting communicates your attraction, although you never come right out and say it. Flirting is a lighthearted fun form of insinuation.

On the other hand, when a woman says something temptingly naughty to you, you might say to her, Stop trying to seduce me, you minx! You know I don’t do that on the first date.

Consider how this works.

As you begin flirting more and more, you begin to get a bit more obvious about your interests, although you never really step over that line.

As you do this, you’ll begin to notice how the attraction between you and the girl starts to build and build. And before you know it, that harmless flirting becomes an outright SEDUCTION.

The real fun begins at this point.

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How To Date Women – Dating Secrets For Men

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

When you think of “dating” a woman, you probably think of “dinner and a movie,” am I right?

You go out and doing things with the woman while you get to know her.

Consider for a moment that this is a misconception about dating.

See, most guys use the concept of “going out” with a girl to mean that there is some romantic ulterior motive there, and that is not always the case.

Let’s go over some of the most common mistakes guys make when “dating” a girl…

Mistake #1: Guys use dates as opportunities to “Impress” women.

Many men feel they have to prove themselves while on a date, so the woman is attracted to them. Many may take a woman out to expensive places while showing her a good time; while they go on to build himself up as important by bragging.

Mistake #2: Buying your way into the heart of a woman.

This is not true and is a very bad idea, since many women are not concerned about the amount of money you spend on a date. There is no amount of money or any expensive item you can buy that will get a woman interested in you if there is no mutual attraction.

Mistake #3: Activities are meaningless!

Since spending time together does not equal a romantic interest, going out with someone does not mean as much as you would think it does, therefore, doing the dinner and a movie date, does not mean the girl will be attracted to you.

Mistake #4: Guys can become BORING!

Nothing is worse than going out on a date where there is no spark or chemistry. Some guys get so nervous on dates, that they sabotage themselves by being a boring dud. They talk about mundane things, display little or no personality, and just go through the motions hoping not to screw anything up.

Mistake #5: The patterns of failure.

Finally, many men get a certain idea about dating in their heads – how things are supposed to be – and they follow that rigidly. They take every girl to the same restaurant. They ask her the same questions. They take all the fun and spontaneity out of the interaction.

So what does it mean to date a woman?

It is simply really, dating builds attractions by strengthening emotional connections and building comfort.

See, it doesn’t matter where you go, or how much money you spend. All that matters is how you’re able to connect to the woman you’re with and what you can make her feel about you.

You will notice that this is the major factor in the difference of going on cheap dates while truly romancing a woman and that of spending a great deal of money and getting nowhere fast.

You should completely focus on how you can increase your emotional connection with the woman you date.

Consider talking about your passions and shared interests, this will aid you in determining what hopes and dreams she holds dear.

Stay away from boring questions like “where do you work?” Instead, rephrase these questions to be fun and interesting, for instance, ask her: “If you could do anything you wanted, and weren’t bound by the laws of space and time, what would you do?”

Just have fun and enjoy yourself!

Crack jokes – even if they’re not good. Have fun. Steer the conversation toward subjects she finds interesting. Be curious about who she is.

Above all, do not be to shy to bring up romance.

Although many men shy away from approaching the subject of relationships while on a date, you should build the intensity of attraction by building toward that.

Joke about sex. Flirt with her. Be a little wicked. Girls like this, and if you DON’T do it, you won’t be able to build enough attraction to take things to the next level.

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Christian Dating Advice For Men

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Blending the balance of our desires and beliefs is an ever-going process in our lives.

Speaking to you as someone who’s struggled, at times, with his faith and his urges as a man, I believe I have a unique perspective on how the two fit together.

It is natural to want to stay true to what we believe in. And for most Christian men, it is important that love occur within the boundaries of church.

One of those boundaries is that sex should only happen once married.

Whether we follow it or not, there are validities of free will choices at work here and it is not for us to judge this belief.

Ancient cultures used to believe that when partaking in sex, a part of the other person’s soul would mingle with yours, and that you’d carry that person around with you for the rest of your life.

In some respects, this is true. So the doctrine to keep your virginity for your wife is a wise one.

But this presents a unique challenge for those men out there who wish to stay true to their faith.

To enable yourself to continue attracting a woman, while fostering a relationship as you wait for marriage is achievable, however, you must take note of a few perspectives.

After all – sex is important! Getting married to someone who’s sexually incompatible with you can be a very difficult union to be in.

Here is some advice I’ve come up with specifically for men who face this issue of romance vs. faith.

1. Refine your beliefs

Faith guides us throughout our lifetime, is essential that you are clear in where you place your faith and beliefs.

We all have free will, the ability to think and reason, this is God’s gift to us. We look at all our options while deciding which path we each take. Some of us take it all in and keep what teaching reverberates within our higher self, while others embrace all of their churches teachings.

You must refine and clarify your beliefs and then stick to them, no matter your choices.

2. Trust in the plan God has for you.

You must trust in the fact that there is a woman out there you are meant to be with, and God has a plan to unite you with her.

Since you have free will, you have to take action while striving to take advantage of all opportunities presented to you. Remember, God can only do so much.

To find the right woman for you, you must be proactive.

Since your actions are belief based on the path God that has set before you, you have to make it happen. This means going out to meet women, dating and getting to know the woman. Remember this is not something that just happens.

3. Know that Virginity is not mystical or precious.

Many people have a notion that virginity is something to be prized, but it really isn’t. Sex is just an act. It’s just like breathing, or walking, or exercising. It is something we do.

Man was meant to be fruitful and multiply. Sex is one of the greatest gifts we have from God. It is pleasurable because he meant for us to have sex.

So to look at your virginity as something sacred is not helpful. Virginity is meant to be lost – the real challenge is finding the right person to lose it to!

Sex has a spiritual aspect of course, since it is an aspect of finding the woman who makes you feel so very alive, whole and loved. The spiritual aspect of sex is different from the act of sex, since it touches you within a deeper level.

Striving to achieve this type of intimacy helps you determine if the physical aspects are in tune also.

Kissing, touching and hugging are natural and nothing to fear. However, sharing your dreams and hopes while gazing deeply into her eyes and relating to her internal desires is where intimacy stems and thrives.

4. Women are real people with no need of a pedestal.

Because of the importance places on sex in your faith, it might be easy to artificially inflate a woman’s importance.

Perhaps you consider her a goddess, a delicate flower, something you should cherish and treat special.

Keep in mind that in many ways men and women are alike. We all come from the same place. You should never put a woman on a pedestal simply because you find her sexually attractive. This is not the same as having respect for her.

It is easy to love an ideal. But it is hard to love the reality. The woman who gets awnry when she’s hungry, the woman who nags you about taking out the garbage, the woman who wakes up in the morning with bad breath – that is the reality.

Being human, we share similar characteristics. We must learn to love the reality of women rather than idealizing them.

You will develop a clearer perspective when you realize that as humans women are just like you in many ways; this helps you to determine if they fit into your life plan.

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Pick Up Lines That Work – How To Start A Conversation

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Some pick up lines are unbecoming, boring and rude.

For example how often have you heard bad pick up lines such as:

“Did it hurt? When you fell from heaven, did it hurt?”

“Do I know you from somewhere?”

“Did you wash your pants with windex? Because I can see myself in them.”

Face it, using lines like this will cause a girl to run the other way. Pick up lines like these make you look like an idiot.

Because pick of lines such as these, which are bad get too much attention, while encouraging others to consider that all pick up lines are worthless.

And this just isn’t true.

Using good pick up lines actually assist you in picking up a woman.

The true point in using pick up lines is to begin a conversation.

PERIOD.

After the woman begins talking with you, then you work your magic of getting her to date you, her telephone number and the emotional connection.

But if you can’t get the conversation started, then you can do anything else!

You not only talk to a woman, you engage her, by drawing her into a conversation, and this is the only means to continuing with your goal.

And guess what? A good pick up line will do that!

It is natural to be nervous when going out to meet women, being unsure what to say; however, most often you miss your chance to meet a good woman, simply because it takes to long to think up something to say.

This is why you should know a couple of good working pick up lines. Situations like these may hinder you from being original and you need something to help you get the ball rolling.

Never, consider that you can slide by with a line such as:

“Don’t I know you from somewhere?”

This is a lame pick up line, and all women know it, you might think yourself clever, but they will not.

Other unimpressive pick up lines include complimenting a woman on her clothing, asking for directions and telling her she looks like a movie star.

Why?

This is because these lines do not engage the woman into a conversation with you, once she answers your question, she may not show interest in conversing with you.

Good pick up lines avoid “yes and no” answers. They are about getting the girl to think about her response, evoking an emotional reaction, and making her WANT to continue to communicate with you.

How can you engage a woman in conversation with you?

The easiest way is to ask her opinion about something. Every woman has strong opinions, and they aren’t afraid to share them! (Particuarly when they come to relationships!)

Good pick up lines work like this, for example. Say something to the woman, like this, Hi, I need you opinion on something, do you think it is normal for a woman to try to time a pregnancy so that her baby is born within a particular zodiac sign? I would really like to hear the opinion of a woman about this subject.

Once you engage her in the conversation you may follow up with a tale of some woman who wants to be sure she and her children are astrologically compatible, to make life a bit more enjoyable as life moves along.

These various types of subjects for conversation can be about:

1. Relationships 2. Astrology 3. Marriage 4. Pregnancy 5. Children

The number of ways you can go with this are endless. Some of my favorite follow ups are:

“Are you a believer in astrology?” (This can begin conversations about destiny and fate.)

“What is your sign?” (No matter what she says – be sure to mention your sign is compatible with hers!)

“Do you like kids? You seem like the nurturing type.”

This could go on forever, surely, you get the idea.

The design of a good pick up line engages a woman into deep and interesting conversations that provide you with an opportunity to get to know one another as you become familiar with each other.

This is how you begin conversations.

Once you reach this point, ask for her telephone number and set up your first date.

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You Can Generate Attraction Regardless Of Your Looks

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

One of the biggest issues I have to deal with when it comes to my students is the idea that they are too ugly to attract women.

Their insecurity comes from their various aspects and natures, such as some of them think they may be too:

Some guys think they’re too old.

Some men think they are too fat.

Some think they’re too short.

Some men think they are too ugly.

Because of this, these men feel they are helpless when it comes to getting the kind of woman they desire.

This simply is not the truth.

We should take just a moment to drive out these few myths of attraction, since they do hold many men back from having a successful love life.

Myth #1 – Women are only attracted to good looking men.

All you have to do is look around at the various types of guys in this world who are dating gorgeous women to know that this isn’t the case.

As a general rule of thumb, I like to say: It’s important to look good, but it’s not important to be good looking!

Is there a difference?

The difference is, you may not escape your looks, but you do control your presentation of what looks you do have by the way you groom and wear your hair as well as how you smell and the clothes you wear, and so forth.

These are all aspects that factor into looking good.

Any man can be attractive when he controls his appearance.

Myth #2 – Women and Men Think Alike

It’s natural to assume that everyone else in the world sees things the same way you see them.

Take for example; you have a zit on your nose that feels so big that you are sure everyone notices it there. However, in reality the pimple is under your skin and not viewable to everyone else in the world.

To you, it was clear as day. To everyone else, it was hardly noticeable.

When it comes to appraising other people, this methodology is typically applied. You judge a woman based on how she looks, right? You’re able to size a woman up visually and determine whether or not you find her attractive, correct?

You naturally assume that women size you up in the same manner.

WRONG.

Women judge men differently to decide on an attraction than men do, although that is not to imply that a woman would not care if a man were attractive or not. Even so, women do not consider physical characteristics in the same way as men do.

A womans attraction bases itself around how a man makes them feel, rather than how a man might look. This is why social status and confidence attract women. Men who make them laugh, they find attractive. Being good at what you do attracts women. Try to understand how this works. For women, looks have very little to do with all of this.

Myth #3 – Women Notice Men’s Insecurities

Understand that we know ourselves better than anyone else ever will. We are able to pick out every single flaw there is about ourselves – our big ears, big nose, weak chin, receding hairline…

We notice these small flaws, no matter what they may be.

Since we see our flaws, we naturally presume that others do too, when in fact the majority of people do not pay attention. Unless that is, they look especially for some characteristic to hold against you. Most fret over their own insecurities whatever they may be, without noticing yours.

Do you know that most women are not aware of your insecurities and only notice them when you call their attention to them? So forget about your insecurities rather than trying to diffuse or dismiss them by calling the attention of others as to why you may think you are ugly.

And insecurity is always unattractive.

In order for your positive qualities to outshine those that you find negative, you must always face every situation with a focus on your good qualities rather than any insecurity.

Myth #4 – Good Looking Guys Have It Easy

Get a grip guys, this is the biggest myth of them all. Women do not automatically flock to a good looking man.

Those men have their own set of problems with women. Clearly in the beginning being attractive physically does help, however they have the same issues as the rest of us.

Attraction is the art of magnifying the emotional connection that a woman feels for you, when you are around, this connection will only occur when you are around her, therefore to feel those feelings she will want you to be around her.

If a man matches a woman’s physical type, she’ll gravitate to him because those features make her feel good. But if the guy is boring, or a jerk, or just not compatible, those feelings will go away.

For example, take a man that a woman is not physically attracted to initially and then give them some time while he causes her to experience pleasure, excitement and fun, eventually, she will become attracted to him.

Making others feel good causes them to want to be with you, this is a fundamental of attraction.

You need to learn how to interact with women, since you do not have to be a good looking man to make women feel good.

The second part of connect with women is generating sexual attraction.

This is the ability to turn a woman on, as well as making her feel good while you are around them.

This is when seduction comes into play.

When you begin to lead a woman down the path of sexual attraction, even if you don’t look like Brad Pitt, she’s going to begin to see you in a whole new light – despite any of the shortcomings you may think you have.

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Meet Women Secrets

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

In case you’ve ever wanted one, here’s a sure-fire, step-by-step guide any man can use to make meeting women fun and easy!

I have a question…

(And be honest now, otherwise I won’t be able to help you!)

Is it hard for you to meet women? Is your fear of meeting women paralyzing you from taking action, causing you to continue to be lonely and alone?

Well, if that sounds like you, don’t worry too much. I’m going to give you some great advice you can start using right now to not only meet tons of women, but to also destroy your fear and doubt, and take control of your love life!

You may be under the false assumption that meeting women is supposed to come naturally to you. After all – we’re men! Aren’t we just “supposed” to know how to do this naturally?

Not necessarily.

Despite what you might think and what others may tell you, the fact is that us men are not born already knowing how to naturally meet and attract women. (Believe me, I wish that WAS the case, but its not, unfortunately.)

Meeting women is a LEARNED social behavior.

You must LEARN how to meet women, just like you have to learn to speak, walk, or do long division.

Meeting women is a SKILL. And you have to LEARN skills in order to develop them.

So if you don’t know how to meet women, know this – there is NOTHING wrong with you! You just haven’t gotten enough experience to make meeting women a comfortable experience yet.

Unfortunately, there are many guys out there who’s fear of meeting women keeps them home alone on Friday night, and most of them will NEVER do what’s necessary to overcome that fear and meet women.

This is due to the fact that these men don’t realize just how much their lives are controlled by this fear! And they justify this fear of going out and meeting women by thinking of all the things that could go wrong.

Some guys have such a dim view of themselves as attractive men that they think a girl they’re interested in is going to laugh at them, or dismiss them, or tell them off. Maybe she’ll throw her drink in their face, or maybe they’ll get beaten up by her boyfriend!

If this sounds like you, then I have news for you: You are actually TRAINING yourself to NOT approach women! You’re giving yourself reasons to give into your fears and not take any action.

In other words: You’re practicing FAILURE.

Understand – most of those things almost never happen in the real world!

Maybe these fears were developed when you were younger and had a bad experience with girls – possibly in the junior high / middle school age range – where some girl rejected you. Or worse, you saw these fears become realized on TV or in the movies, and that made you believe they apply to real life.

It is highly unfortunate that so many men let irrational fears shape their beliefs and attitudes about how to meet and date women that they keep to this very day!

In contrast, there are other men out there who were fortunate enough to have positive experiences with girls early on in their development. These experiences helped banish irrational fears about meeting women, which helped set them up for a lot of success with women as they got older.

Even if you didn’t have the best experiences as you were developing, it’s not too late to take control of your love life and overcome your irrational fears about meeting women. Just because you weren’t an “early bloomer,” doesn’t mean you still can’t become a real ladies man!

You will need to examine and change your current beliefs and attitudes that are currently holding you back from having real success with women, and re-learn what you “think” you know about how to meet women and start training yourself to meet them the RIGHT WAY.

But that’s difficult for most guys to do. It’s no problem to say you want to learn how to meet women easily, but it’s doing the work that’s the hardest part. You need to want it badly enough!

Do you want to be the kind of guy who let’s every opportunity with women pass him by because he’s too scared to take it?

If you see a girl you want to meet – say SOMETHING. Even if you don’t know what to say, just take a chance.

Ask her for directions. Ask for her opinion on something. Playfully tease her about something she’s wearing or something she’s doing.

Or better yet, pay her a genuine compliment and be curious about who she is!

Quickly settle on the what to say – don’t worry about the words you’re going to use – and go over there and talk to her. Don’t let more than three seconds pass by. Make the decision to act and follow through. (It will help you in the future if you memorize some canned material that matches your personality.)

Understand that the simple act of walking up to a girl and talking to her makes you a winner! Because you’re able to do something that 80% of the other guys out there would be too afraid to do! Even if you strike out, or fail to get the phone number or a date, you’re still a winner. The simple act of being able to meet any woman will greatly increase your chances of finding that one special girl, and in the end, isn’t that the real goal?

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Learn To Approach Any Woman

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Every man out there should learn how to approach women, because if he doesn’t, he is missing out on the vital first step for finding the girl of his dreams and forming a relationship with her…

You have to know how to approach a girl in the right manner if you want to have success with your pickup. The following are some proven tips I’d recommend you do to help you be successful in meeting women!

Have you ever approached a girl with what you thought was the best pickup line ever, but she freaked out when you tapped her on the shoulder?

Getting rejected right off the bat can be painful, but this is why you need to know the secrets to approaching women the right way! Once you’ve “blown it” with a girl, it is extremely hard to recover.

The most important thing to remember when approaching women is to come off as NON-THREATENING and to not, under any circumstances, telegraph your interest in them too early.

This is all about coming in “under the radar.”

You have to understand that most attractive women get hit on CONSTANTLY, so they’ve trained themselves to simply reject guys at the first sign they’re out to pick them up.

Think about this: if you had homeless people constantly walking up to you begging for change, you’d get pretty sick of it, right? Well, to most women, guys who try and pick them up are no better than that – an annoyance.

However, approaching women can not only be effective, but also fun and easy if you know the RIGHT WAY to do it!

So let’s talk about the right way to approach any woman…

The first secret is – DO NOT HESITATE!

If you hesitate and let the opportunity pass you by, you’re never going to experience success. Giving yourself time to talk yourself out of approaching a girl will never get you anywhere, so it’s important you act quickly and JUST DO IT.

Secondly, know what you’re going to start the conversation with BEFORE you approach the girl. This will make meeting women much easier because you don’t have to spend time thinking of what to say before you feel comfortable walking up to meet her.

So having a good pick-up line in your hip pocket to use in these situations is probably a good idea.

Now, when I use the term “pick up line,” I don’t mean the “Nice shirt, want to have sex?” type of line that’ll get you slapped in the face. Remember, you need to be NON-THREATENING!

Great pick up lines simply engage women in innocent conversation. So asking her opinion on something and then talking about it is always preferable to a sleazy or funny line that you’ve seen on TV.

Another thing – when you are approaching women, don’t charge in like you’re going to war. Approach them from an angle. This is less confrontational and will subconsciously put the woman you are engaging more at ease.

The simple fact is – great pick-ups can only occur when the girl you are talking to feels comfortable with you! That’s why you need to feel comfortable talking to the girl.

If you feel uncomfortable approaching women, the best way to build your comfort level is to go out and practice meeting as many women as you can until you GET comfortable with it!

Let me tell you – getting good at approaching women is not going to happen if all you do is read about it or study it! You actually have to DO it so you can build your level of experience. (Trust me, it gets easier the more you do it).

If you’re afraid of rejection, adjust your goals so that it’s hard to get rejected. Too many guys try and get the phone number, the date, or the quick romp in the sack. Instead, take baby steps and set your goal as just talking to the girl and carrying on a conversation. Use that as your measure of success. Remember, you’re just learning the right way of doing things.

That’s all you need to do!

Make it a game by seeing how many girls you can talk to in one day, and then try and beat your score.

Finally, use a “time constraint” when approaching women. This is as simple as telling her you’ve only got a minute to talk to her because you’ve got to get back to your friends or whatever you’re doing.

Time constraints let the girl you’re talking to know that you’re not trying to monopolize her time, and that this will be a quick conversation. Because of this, she’ll be more willing to engage in your talk.

Don’t worry about putting a time limit on yourself. Once the conversation picks up, the girl will forget about your time constraint and you can talk to her as long as you want. Remember, the goal here is just to get the conversation started, and a good time constraint will help you do that!

Be aware that the dating game is actually a numbers game. You need to meet as many women as possible to find that one special girl who will change your life.

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Secrets On How To Pick Up Women

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Are you struggling when it comes to finding, meeting, and picking up women? If so, here are some guidelines to help you succeed in finding the women of your dreams!

Do you want to go out and pick up a woman tonight, but have no clue where to start?

Chances are no one you know can help you learn to pick up women. Your friends are probably just as clueless as you are, and your family is of no help at all. Even those “Dating Experts” you see on TV are full of it, because they have to cater to the feminist media to keep their careers on track! (And as we all know, the mainstream media doesn’t like helping guys get laid!)

The fact is: Teaching guys how to pick up women is a touchy subject!

If you want to have success with women TONIGHT, you’re going to have to follow some practical advice that works right away. Lucky for you, I’m about to share some with you right now…

First of all, let’s cover what you DON’T need to pick up women.

You DON’T need to look like a “male model.”

This is a big mistake most men make. Understand that about 85% of women actually care more about how a man can make them FEEL than how the man actually LOOKS.

So if you’re insecure about your looks, don’t sweat it! There’s still hope.

Second, you DON’T have to spend a lot of money or drive an expensive car!

Quite a few of the best Pickup Artists I’ve ever known spend $30 or less when they go out on dates, and more than one of them doesn’t even own a car! (And the ones that do don’t drive anything special!)

You’ll find that women can be very forgiving when it comes to how much money you make or spend on them, if they LIKE you! And part of picking up women is to get the girl to like you, right?

Finally, you DON’T have to be famous, be a certain type of ethnicity or nationality, or anything else you can think of.

The secret is to have a great personality – this will make any other obstacle you think you have to getting a girl to like you obsolete!

If you know the proper way to interact with women, nothing else matters.

You may not be able to have phenomenal success with these tactics right away if you’re just starting out. But if you take the time to start applying these tactics and actually learn from your experiences, you’ll find your success with women will dramatically improve.

You’ll want to try and go out as often as you can to talk to women – especially when you’re first starting out. You may be intimidated to go to “high pressure” environments like bars or clubs where it’s difficult to pick up women, but they are great practice grounds for you to hone your skills.

No matter what – if you want to get better, you need to devote some time every day to go out and pick up women. The more you do it, the better you’ll get!

When you’re first starting, you might not have a whole lot of success with the ladies. But over time, as your experience builds, your confidence will grow. Every success and failure you have is a learning experience meant to make you better at picking up women.

Remember: With Experience Comes MASTERY.

All you’re doing when you go out to pick up women is gaining experience!

You’re going to want to try and look as good as you can when you go out to gain this valuable experience with women.

(Notice I didn’t say “good looking.” I said “look good.” There’s a difference. You can’t control what you look like, but you CAN control your appearance – your hair, your tan, your clothes, etc.)

Dress for success: Wear clothing that fits you, that’s color-coordinated and looks good on you. If you have fashion-conscious friends who can help you pick out a wardrobe (particularly if they’re women), now’s the time to recruit them.

It’s true that you don’t need fancy threads to meet girls, but why not make it easier by wearing nice clothes, why wouldn’t you do it? Besides, looking good will also make you feel more confident!

Be on the lookout for opportunities to do pickup. You can find attractive women just about anywhere. And if you notice that she’s given you the eye, it would almost be a sin not to start talking to her!

Finally, its important to remember that a good pick up follows an easy-to-use structure. This means there’s steps you can follow to get a specific result EVERY TIME you go out to meet women.

The structure is:

Find a girl.

Walk up and meet her.

Talk and Gain Rapport.

Build Attraction.

These four simple steps is all you need! You’ll find that if you can just meet the women you want and gain rapport with them, you’ll easily be able to build attraction with them too.

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